Sunday, June 29, 2008

A Little bit of Evils history

My grandmother and I spent a lot of time at evils house. She moved about 6 hours away and we went quite often. Suprisingly Evil was nice to me during those times. When we went down Angel(My grandma) usually spent lots of money, buying groceries, paying lots of evil and her husbands overdue bills. I think he let them stack up knowing my grandmther would come to save the day. When I was about 11 or 12, we were visiting and there was a 6 year age difference beteween my cousin and I. So I usually found older kids to play with. Each time it was different kids because they lived on base and people usually didnt stay long. My cousins little friend told me that my little cousin who was somewhere around 8 told her that her daddy and her" be doing it" Ill never forget because I wasnt too sure myself what "doing it" actually was. Except that it sounded like sex and daddies and daughters dont do that. So I went and found my cousin and questioned her about it and she told me she was just playing and had mae it up. I wish to this day I had told an Adult. I didnt , I thought I was keeping her from getting into trouble for lying. Later that same trip we were all in the livingroom sleeping in sleeping bags it was hot as hell. Her father attempted to unzip my sleeping bag. I pretended to be sleep and loudly turned over. He moved real quick. I did not tell anyone until we left what he did. My grandmother found out an questioned me. I told about the sleeping bag incident, she questioned him and he explained that it was hot and he was just trying to give me air. Well of course she believed him. A few months later evil came home and found him having sex with their daughter on the couch. Needless to say it came out that he had been having sex with his daughter since she could remember. Because he was military they handled it. Yeah they handled it allright. He spent small time in their jail and was not allowed to reenlist( 20+years). However he got out and promptly got a civilian job for the government. Go figure.
Evil was kind of stuck though, she had 4 kids with him. The youngest was in need of a liver transplant. She was not even one yet. It was a hard time for her. Even sending her other 3 to live with us for a while. The baby had her transplant a few days before her 2nd birthday. She was one of the first babys to have the procedure done it was the early 80's. She was so sick for a long time. If you thought that evil would have been done with her husband after this she was not. he lived with her and her children off and on for a few years after that. Matter of fact I believe deep downinside she blamed her on daughter for her marriage falling apart. Nothing she said, just how she acted with her oldest daughter , and continues to act with her, Nothing her oldest child did was ever right. Everyone noticed it and continues to notice. And how could she let the man who molested her daughter ever back in the house. Not to mention she couldnt get 2cents child support. This was a sick, sick realtionship. At least in my opinnion.